RETREAT ISN’T
necessarily defeat. Instead of surrender, it can be a pullback to revise
strategy. My plan for life as a gentleman writer was failing, and to revive it
I had to retreat from the bucolic beachhead on the California coast.
Once the book
royalties dried up, we couldn’t live in dreamland anymore. We didn’t want to
leave Pebble Beach but couldn’t afford to stay.
We’d outgrown our
house, where Sarah and Eric couldn’t share a bedroom much longer. We couldn’t
add on here and couldn’t buy up in the bullish local real-estate market.
Paul Perry offered a
solution. The editor of Running
magazine called to say, “Our managing editor is leaving, going back to New York
City. Would you like to move north and take her place? Nike can raise your pay
and cover your moving costs, plus you’ll find bargains on houses here.”
The benefits would
be professional and financial, even educational. As a gatekeeper on content for
the magazine I could assign and edit my own articles, reclaiming a voice in the
running world. Moving to Eugene, where half the money bought twice the home, would
solve the housing squeeze.
Sarah was now in second
grade at a school that wasn’t great. The older population of this area balked
at spending tax money on schools.
Eric, at three, had
started to school himself. Our boy was slow to start talking.
A pediatrician had tried
to ease our concerns by saying, “Don’t worry. He’s a boy and a second child.
That combination often leads to delayed speech.”
Finally we visited a
specialist at Stanford University Hospital. She told us, “Your boy has been
severely hearing impaired since birth. Without hearing aids, he essentially
can’t hear anything.”
The doctor outlined a
remedial program: hearing aids and an early start at a special pre-school. At
age three he took an hour-long bus ride to Salinas and back each day.
The kids deserved better
schools, or at least closer ones, than we could find on the Monterey Peninsula.
So we headed north to Eugene, where a job awaited, where better housing was
affordable, where the schools were first-rate in this college town.
Relocating here was a
needed move out of the dream and back to reality, out of a theme park that
guests paid to see and into a real town. We would remain in Eugene long after Running magazine’s short life ended. Eugene,
where I came in retreat, would become my longest-time home.
Photo: Pre’s
Trail, hallowed ground for runners of all abilities in Eugene.
[Many books of mine, old
and recent, are now available in two different formats: in print and as ebooks
from Amazon.com. The titles: Going Far, Home
Runs, Joe’s Team, Learning to Walk, Long Run Solution, Long Slow
Distance, Miles to Go, Pacesetters, Run Right Now, Run Right Now Training Log, See How We
Run, and Starting Lines, plus Rich Englehart’s book about me, Slow Joe.]
Mr. Henderson,
ReplyDeleteMy assumption is that your daughter went to Forest Grove Elementary. I was there in the 3rd through 6th grades from 1971-75. I've been to 5 other schools including college, and my opinion is that Forest Grove was better than most.
I'm also a runner. I ran my best 10K (37:51) in 1991. At 6'2" and 165 pounds and training 40+ miles a week, most would think I should have done better. My form is terrible. I flail a lot. Doing push-ups to improve upper-body strength only helped a little. I still flail.
I love running in scenic areas. I love running period. I even enjoy running for more than an hour on a treadmill at 24-Hour Fitness in the wee hours of the morning.
Philip Schneidewind
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