(This is 50th
anniversary of my first article in Runner’s World magazine.
All year I post excerpts from my book, This Runner’s World.)
April 2001
(retitled in the magazine). Two of the best reasons to run have little to
do with staying in shape or with training to race. These attractions are
thinking and talking.
They aren’t opposites but companions. Team running lets you talk
freely with friends, while solo running allows a heart-to-heart talk with
yourself. Both opportunities are scarce in a world long on loud noises and
short on calm voices.
Running alone with my thoughts is my choice most days. This hour a
day is all mine – time away from the phone, radio and computer that share my
office, time to clear away the mental clutter so the good thoughts can bubble
up. I don’t carry pen and pad, but usually come back from run with ideas
begging to be captured on paper.
George Sheehan, one of the sport’s all-time great writers, said he
did his best “writing” away from his desk – while running. He treasured the
solitary times “when I’ve been able to withdraw from the world and be inside
myself. Such moments can open doors impervious to force or guile.”
Talk with runners fills the rest of my day, so I feel little need
to run with them. If I worked outside the sport, I’d need to talk my way into a
partnership or group.
Something in the act of running – the rhythm, the sweat, the
common purpose, the stripping of outer roles and inner restraints – loosens up
one set of muscles above all others: those that operate the jaws. Listen in on
two or more runners talking, and you’ll never again believe that long-distance
runners are a lonely breed.
Dr. Sheehan balanced aloneness with togetherness. He once wrote
that talking on the run “frees me from the polysyllabic jargon of my
profession, removes me from the kind of talk which aims at concealing rather
than revealing what is in my heart.
“For me no time passes faster than when running with a companion.
An hour of conversation on the run is one of the quickest and most satisfying
hours ever spent.”
Two of the best reasons for running, according to George, are
contemplation and conversation. His third reason: competition, which he defined
not as competing against others but joining them to bring out better work than
we could ever do alone.
A race is as different from a daily run as a private chat is from
a public lecture. Conversing is easy, as taking a casual run is. Speaking
before a group is as hard – and as fearsome – as racing, but the audience brings
out the speaker’s best words just as a race crowd brings out the best runs.
I’ve always enjoyed talking casually with almost anyone about
almost anything. But the prospect of speaking in public used to tongue-tie me
with fear. I went through college hiding behind the tallest student in class to
avoid being called on to comment.
Soon after graduation I was forced to take the stage at running
events and later was doing it voluntarily. Now I look forward to facing
friendly crowds. The butterflies in my belly are now an expected and accepted
part of the warmup, as they are before any race.
Even George Sheehan, perhaps the most skilled speaker this sport
has known, paced and stewed before his lectures. Once onstage he spoke calmly
and beautifully.
No hour passed faster than one at a Sheehan talk, and he left the
listeners wanting more. They clustered around him for another hour before
letting him leave the hall.
He drew his largest crowds and longest ovations at the Boston
Marathon. One year there, after George had signed his last book and answered
his last question, we left the room together.
“That was quite a show,” I said. He agreed that it was, but added,
“at times like this I have to remind myself that a few blocks from here I’m
just another skinny Irishman.”
I don’t have to go even that far to look like just another gnome
in glasses. Running talk tells me I’m more than that.
Talking with the people who know you best and care about you most
– and sometimes just having a good talk with yourself – tells you who you
really are. No time is better spent.
2018 Update. Little did I
know at this writing how much social life was about to change. Talking directly
with runners would grow enormously as I started teaching university running
classes, which would lead to coaching marathon and half-marathon teams. Those
all continue today, and our “alumni association” numbers more than 1000.
[Many books of mine, old
and recent, are now available in two different formats: in print and as ebooks
from Amazon.com. The titles: Going Far, Home Runs, Joe’s Team, Learning to
Walk, Long Run Solution, Long Slow Distance, Miles to Go, Pacesetters, Run
Right Now, Run Right Now Training Log, See How We Run, Starting Lines, and This
Runner’s World, plus Rich Englehart’s book about me, Slow Joe.]